These are our first school holidays since the Little Big Fella started school.
It's the first time I've been used to him being out of the house for the majority of five days a week, and now he's not... for two weeks.
And it turns out that our Little Big Fella is pretty social, and doesn't really like being an only child at the moment.
And I really wasn't prepared for any of it!
I wasn't prepared to feel like I was being invaded by my own family, or to deal with the extra mess that appears just because they're home, or the persistent requests for friends to come and play or meet us at the park.
So I've suddenly had to do a big mind-shift.
After only 10 weeks of school, I've had to shift back to child-in-the-house mode and remember that he wants (and needs) at least some of my attention during the day.
I've had to shift back to playdate planning mode and arrange to meet up with friends, or have them here, because that is part of what he needs at this point in time.
I've had to remember to play games with him, and be patient about it.
And we've added learning to our holidays - learning small words and sentences, and remembering what sounds each of the letters make.
So, school holidays - take one has been a bit of a shock to the system. But I think if I plan ahead next time, we'll all cope with it a little bit better, and maybe, just maybe even enjoy ourselves for most of the time!
Imagine that!
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